Orgasms are probably the more difficult thing to explain. Orgasms affect your entire body. There are plenty of people — women specifically — who go through life and never have an orgasm. A lot can be responsible for people being unable to orgasm. Make sure to talk about the pressure of the sensation — particularly for women. Discuss the importance of a consistent rhythm and how each pulse is a unique feeling of pleasure.
Alas, of course, there are women on the Internet who have tried and they have taken to THIS Reddit thread to share their experience of orgasm. And then, when the suspense finally breaks when the bad guy jumps out of the closet or whatever and there is that feeling or tingles and relief. It's kinda like that. But really sexy. Imagine your whole body feeling like that, with a wave as if your entire body is "asleep" like when your foot falls asleep. I feel really sensitive for a while afterward. I have a ton of energy and I am really excited but then I want to sleep.
Everything You Need to Know About the Female Orgasm
The female orgasm is the holy grail of sexual experience. It spreads in waves and reaches the extent of my full body as it increases in intensity. It is like an earthquake of pleasure that fills my body with the best energy ever, and slowly dissipates and leaves me drained and happy. Some are just a spark of pleasure that start at my clit and reverberates out to my legs and back for thirty seconds to a minute or so. Some feel like a very deep and momentous earthquake of tension release that sends waves of ecstasy from my solar plexus to every part of my body and lasts several moments where I can't do anything except just experience it.
There are so many levels of pleasure in sexual contact — how do you know which one is an orgasm? The answer is through repeated orgasms — but also through talking to other women about what orgasms feel like. With that in mind, we spoke with six women about what it feels like when they orgasm. Obviously the experience is going to be different for every woman, but we can assume there are some commonalities that will help people answer the question: Have I actually ever orgasmed?